"The woman's egg waits inside – it can wait for infinity – but the man's sperm cannot wait that long. He wants to have the marathon race as quickly as possible. That's why he pretends romance and all goody-goody things, but his real intention is when it is nine-fifteen…! He is constantly looking at the watch. Everything else is good, but the real goal is nine-fifteen.

"And the situation is determined very quickly…. Those one million sperms that will be released in one sexual act will never have such a marathon race again; it is a question of life and death. Only one out of one million will reach to the woman's egg which is just sitting there.

"Once one sperm has reached the egg, the egg is closed. Sometimes it happens that a few friends reach together; then you have twins. But that is very rare and anyway one million people cannot reach – they will kill the woman if they reach at the same time…nine-fifteen! There are wiser ones who stand by the side and see the whole scene, and there are idiots who don't look here and there and go direct like an arrow because there is not much time. The life of a sperm out of a man's body is only two hours.

"Once a man's sperms are released, he wants to sleep. He's tired and it is enough. Now he doesn't think about romance, he does not have any inbuilt program for a little afterplay…before, he has to. So within two or three minutes – that is nine-seventeen – he is already thinking, 'When will this nonsense stop?' Certainly it is tiring for him; it is his energy that is going out.

"The woman is not losing energy, she is gaining energy. And she could not even get an orgasm, because the orgasm takes some time. The man should play with her body, provoke every cell and fiber of her body so she becomes afire. But no man is concerned and it looks stupid also, 'What are you doing? Just do the real thing and go to sleep.'

"It is very difficult to find a man who will love you and not just as an object of sexual release."